6-12岁活动 | 朋友重要吗？Do Friends Matter?

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坏朋友会败坏善行，所以要谨慎选择朋友。

主题

品格、友谊、影响、同辈压力、人际关系、智慧

材料

友谊方块

中等厚度卡纸（可选）

透明胶带

剪刀

时间

大约10分钟

课前准备

在课前，打印并组装“友谊方块”。（点击这里查看示例。）

说明

1.做

请几位志愿者到教室前面来，掷“友谊方块”。在掷方块之前，每位志愿者先说：“今天，我希望我交到一个……的朋友。” 然后掷方块，并根据方块顶面的词语完成句子。让所有想参与的学生都来一轮，然后大家回到座位。

你可以说：“这可能是个有趣的活动，但如果把选择朋友这么重要的事交给运气，那就太愚蠢了。朋友会影响我们的行为——要么好，要么坏。因此，我们需要谨慎选择那些能帮助我们按着讨神喜悦的方式生活的朋友。让我们看看圣经对这个重要话题是怎么说的。”

请志愿者分别读以下经文：

箴言 12:26
箴言 13:20
哥林多前书 15:33

2.讨论问题

“被引入歧途”是什么意思？（拒绝引导或管教；与敬虔的行为相反。）
为什么在选择亲密朋友时要谨慎？（朋友会影响我们的行为。圣经告诉我们，坏朋友会败坏我们。）
我们应该在朋友身上寻找哪些特质？（让学生自由分享。例如：敬虔、体贴、仁爱、可信。）
好朋友如何帮助我们过更敬虔的生活？（让学生自由讨论。）

我们不应该完全背弃那些不是基督徒的人。我们仍然要成为盐和光，关心他们，与他们分享耶稣在我们生命中所做的事，以及祂愿意在他们生命中所做的事。我们要为他们祷告，并与他们一起祷告，但不要参与他们的负面行为。

*** 英文版 ***

Do Friends Matter?

Bad company corrupts good character, so choose your friends wisely

TOPICS:

Character, Friendship, Influence, Peer Pressure, Relationships, Wisdom

MATERIALS:

Friendship Cube [PDF] Click hereMedium card stock (optional)Clear tapeSiccors

DURATION:

Approximately 10 minutes

PREPARATION

Before class, print and assemble the "Friendship Cube." Click here for example

WHAT YOU WILL DO:

Ask several volunteers to come up in front of the class and roll the "Friendship Cube." Before rolling the cube have each volunteer say, "Today, I hope I make a friend that is..." The volunteer then rolls the cube and finishes by saying the word that is displayed on top of the cube. Let everyone that wants to take a turn, do so, and then have everyone return to his or her seat.

Say, "This may have been a fun activity, but it would be foolish to leave something as important as the selection of our friends up to chance. Friends influence the way we act - either good or bad. Therefore, we need to be careful to choose friends that will help us behave in ways that will please God. Let's see what the Bible has to say about this important topic."

Ask volunteers to each read one of the following verses:

Proverbs 12:26

Proverbs 13:201

Corinthians 15:33

Discussion Questions:

1. What does it mean to be led astray? (Resistant to guidance or discipline; the opposite of godly behavior.)

2. Why should we be careful when selecting close friends? (Friends will influence our behavior. Scripture tells us that bad company will corrupt us.)

3. What characteristics should we look for in friends? (Allow for discussion. Some examples include: Godly, Considerate, Loving, and Trustworthy.)

4. How can good friends help us lead more godly lives? (Allow for discussion.)

We should not completely turn our backs on those who are not Christians. We should still be the salt and light to those with whom we come in contact. We should care about people, share what Jesus has done in our lives and what He is willing to do in their lives, pray with them and for them, without taking part in their negative behaviors.

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