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介绍

完成本课后，孩子们将理解建立敬虔友谊的重要性。

主题

委身、大卫、友谊、引导、同侪压力、人际关系

等孩子(10分钟)

活动 | 混合的影响

开头的祷告(5分钟)

参见：开头的祷告

背经节(15分钟)

朋友在凡事上都显出爱心，弟兄为患难而生。 -箴言 17:17

请孩子们在圣经中找出这节经文。邀请几位志愿者轮流朗读。解释：真正的朋友在顺境与逆境中都不离不弃，而家人则在艰难时刻中给予我们支持和帮助。

圣经故事与讨论(20分钟)

引言：

在服事扫罗王的过程中，大卫与扫罗的儿子约拿单成为了亲密的朋友，感情如同亲兄弟。然而，随着大卫在百姓中的声望日增，扫罗的嫉妒转为仇恨，并开始密谋杀害大卫，约拿单夹在这场冲突的中间。

读 撒母耳记上 18:1–11

讨论问题：

1. 约拿单送给大卫哪些礼物？（外袍、刀、弓、腰带）

2. 扫罗为什么想杀大卫？（因为百姓唱道：“扫罗杀死千千，大卫杀死万万”，扫罗心生嫉妒）

读 撒母耳记上 19:1–10

讨论问题：

1. 约拿单第一次如何帮助大卫？（警告大卫父亲扫罗想杀他）

2. 约拿单接下来又做了什么？（劝告父亲说大卫是忠心的仆人，无罪可杀）

3. 扫罗对约拿单怎么回应？（答应不杀大卫，立誓放过他）

4. 扫罗是否遵守誓言？（没有，后来又拿枪想刺杀大卫）

读 撒母耳记上 20:1–42

讨论问题：

1. 约拿单如何表现出对大卫的忠诚？（愿意冒着违背父亲的风险帮助大卫）

2. 他请求大卫为他做什么？（求大卫一生以慈爱待他和他的家人）

3. 扫罗如何劝说约拿单去杀大卫？（说只要大卫活着，约拿单就不能作王）

4. 约拿单是否被说服？（没有，他没有违背与大卫在耶和华面前立的约，反而帮助大卫逃跑，二人也成为一生之友）

课堂活动(10分钟)

活动 | 真正的朋友

备选课堂活动(10分钟)

活动 | 朋友重要吗

应用(2分钟)

敬虔的友谊可以持续到永恒，值得我们珍惜。像约拿单一样，我们应当愿意为朋友牺牲、付出。真朋友会彼此扶持、互相监督，在顺境与逆境中都不离不弃。

下节课

一个坏掉的收音机和一个爱说闲话的人有什么共同点？下周来发现答案吧！

结尾的祷告(2分钟)

参见：结尾的祷告

反馈单

课结束之前，把反馈单发给每个孩子。

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KING DAVID

LESSON 3: Friends for Life

After completing this lesson, the children will understand the importance of developing godly friendships. 

TOPICS

Commitment, David, Friendship, Guidance, Peer Pressure, Relationships

AS KIDS ARRIVE (10 minutes)

Blended Influence (Activity) Click here

OPENING PRAYER AND PRAISE (5 minutes)

Further info? Click here

MEMORY WORK (12 minutes)

"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity." Proverbs 17:17 NIV

Have the children look up the verse in their Bibles. Ask several volunteers to read the passage. Explain that true friends stick together in both the good times and the bad and that family members help us get through difficult times.

SCRIPTURE READING AND DISCUSSION (15 minutes)

Introduction:While serving King Saul, David became close friends with the king's son, Jonathan. Over time, David and Jonathan became as close as brothers. However, as David gained popularity with the people, King Saul's jealousy grew into hatred and he began to plot to kill David. Jonathan was caught in the middle of this terrible conflict.

Read 1 Samuel 18:1-11

Discussion Questions:

1. What gifts did Jonathan give David? (Jonathan gave David his tunic, sword, bow, and belt.)

2. Why did King Saul want to kill David? (Saul became jealous of David when the people sang, "Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of thousands.” 1 Samuel 18:7)

Read 1 Samuel 19:1-10

Discussion Questions:

1. How did Jonathan first help David? (Jonathan warned David that his father was looking for an opportunity to kill him.)

2. What did Jonathan do next to help David? (He reminded his father that David was a faithful servant and that he had no basis for wanting to kill him.)

3. How did King Saul respond to Jonathan? (He listened to Jonathan and made an oath that he would not put David to death.)

4. Did King Saul keep his promise to Jonathan? (No, King Saul later attempted to kill David by pinning him to the wall with his spear.)

Read 1 Samuel 20:1-42

Discussion Questions:

1. How did Jonathan demonstrate his commitment to David? (Jonathan told David that he would do anything he could to help him, even if it meant going against his father's wishes.)

2. What did Jonathan ask David to do for him? (Jonathan asked David to show unfailing kindness to him and his family.)

3. How did King Saul try to persuade Jonathan that it would be to his benefit to kill David? (Saul told his son that as long as David was alive, Jonathan's kingdom could not be established.)

4. Did King Saul's argument convince Jonathan to kill David? (No, Jonathan didn't break the covenant he made with David before the Lord. Jonathan helped David escape and they remained friends for life.)

CLASS EXERCISE (10 minutes)

True Friends (Activity) Click here

ALTERNATE CLASS EXERCISE (10 minutes)

Do Friends Matter? (Activity) Click here

APPLICATION (2 minutes)

Godly friendships can last for eternity and should be cherished. Like Jonathan, we should be willing to make sacrifices to help our friends whenever possible. True friends build each other up, keep each other accountable, and are there through the good times and the bad.

NEXT WEEK

What do a broken radio and a gossip have in common? You will have to come back next week to find out.

CLOSING PRAYER (2 minutes)

Further info? Click here

TAKE HOME PAGE

Give one copy to each child at the end of the class to take home. Click here for NIV or KJV [PDF]

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